Dear Bunmi,
When I met my boyfriend a year ago, the attraction was instant and our sex life was great.
Recently though, it is all gone down-hill since he got promoted at work and started working long hours. I’ve tried everything to get him interested again, but now I’m scared he’s cheating on me.
Nnena by e-mail
Dear Nnena,
You’re totally over-reacting. Every couple’s sex life has slow times when one or the other just doesn’t feel like doing it. And while you shouldn’t simply sit back and let things slide, rushing into panic mode will just make the situation worse.
The fact you’ve desperately tried to get your boyfriend interested is probably making him feel really pressure. And you panicking that he might be cheating on you is only alienating him even more. No wonder he doesn’t feel like sex.
Instead, start being supportive and sympathetic about his work problems and accept that for a little while, sex will be on the back burner. That approach is much more likely to get your sex life going again.
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